Little frustration developed, and, in retrospect, I indicate
only some impressions rather than enormous difficulties.
Time and
rapid development and maturing were the main factors in overcoming
the difficulties. Within a year I was sufficiently adjusted and
confident of myself to make new acquaintances and relationships
among my classmates. Once on my own and away from the "group of
Ford Scholars" I was as integrated as any of my classmates. The
placement of Ford students together was the major factor in the
difficulty. Once this ceased, the problem quickly disappeared.
Reports from
the colleges also mentioned the male Scholars' dating problem. One
college observed: "The boys work hard at strange shifts to conceal
their age, since no girl who values her reputation wants a date
with a boy two years her junior." While many Comparison students
also complained that they had been "cold-shouldered" by freshman
girls during their first year, the Scholars' difficulty in this
respect was more acute.
Perhaps the
most eloquent testimony that dating was not much of a problem for
the girls in the Early Admission Program came from the 1951 Scholar
who wrote in the summer of 1955:
I have
participated in social activities fully, having no inclination to
be "bookish" as some of my Ford colleagues definitely are. Perhaps
my social adjustment can be best characterized by the fact that I
dated frequently (and variously!) during my first two years,
settling down to a fiancé in my junior year, marrying him in
the early part of last June, and becoming a mother this past March
28!
In their
essay questionnaires at the end of senior year, the Scholars and
Comparisons also were asked whether they had been able to overcome
their social and emotional difficulties. The responses, based on
the total number who had reported difficulties, were as
follows:
|
1951 GROUP |
1952 GROUP |
|
SCHOLARS |
COMPARISONS |
SCHOLARS |
COMPARISONS |
| YES |
73% |
57% |
80% |
87% |
| PARTLY |
17 |
22 |
14 |
9 |
| NO |
7 |
15 |
5 |
2 |
| NO RESPONSE |
3 |
6 |
1 |
2 |